Showing posts with label kathy sierra. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kathy sierra. Show all posts
Sunday, April 15, 2007
In Left Blogtopia, there has been a controversy for several days due to remarks made by Markos Moulitsas Zúniga, the proprietor of Daily Kos that many including myself considered insensitive to women. For days now, many of the feminist bloggers have called on Markos to re-examine his views about how women are treated, threatened, insulted in the blogosphere.
This all came about because a female blogger, Kathy Sierra, was stalked, had her number, address, social security information posted. People also did photoshop pictures of her being murdered with her decapitated head in a noose. This woman is a technology, not a political blogger. Markos' basically told people to toughen up.
After days of demands that Markos actually read what has transpired, and to quit being insensitive, Markos apparently gave great thought to the issue, and wrote the following this morning.
I don't disagree with anything Lindsey wrote. I disagreed with using a bloggers threats as an excuse to foist upon us all a "Blogger Code of Conduct".
That's what I was saying. 1) There are assholes that will 2) email stupid shit to any public figure (which includes bloggers, but 3) that won't be stopped by any blogger code of conduct.
You see, stupid asshole psycho threatening emailers don't care about codes of conduct. That's all.
After 3 days, here is his response to all the outpouring from women bloggers who have detailed rape threats, being raped in real life, knowing others who have been attacked, stalked, and were outraged by his chauvinistic attitude. That was it.
It's bullshit. Like any other enterprise in the market place, Markos got to be where he is through a combination of hard work, some talent, as well as fortuitous timing. He is the biggest, but like Woolworth, GM, K-Mart or any other large enterprise, his position isn't permanent. He is acting arrogantly like those big concerns before they got their comeupance. There are better writers than Markos. There are better progressives. I encourage everybody to seek these people out and give them your eyeballs, your ad clicks, and your donations.
It's Markos' choice to be chauvinistic, obtuse, and unrepentant. It's ours to decide "if we want to lie back and take it".
Update:I scrolled down to the bottom of the thread today that Markos posted and found the following "gem" there.
I guess that the relevant standard is that we have to not only tolerate the fears of our emotional weakest links, but we also are obligated to agree with them, lest we get flayed alive for not caring enough about their fragile emotional states and irrational attribution of every life's misery on the dominant patriarchy.
LOL
I guess it isn't enough to support sexual equality in all areas of life, gay rights, affirmative action, racial equality, a wider safety net and a greater government role in health, safety, financial and business regulations. Now I guess we have to agree to wallow in the emotional fever swamp of femynyst academia and the professional victim class.
This is why people are pissed Markos. Your cavalier attitude towards women's issues enables people like this to feel safe in dismissing women's issues. Is that your intent, or is it not?
Friday, April 13, 2007
This is meta, so forgive me. There is an apparently unending phenomena in leftopia of male activists, writers, and blog owners who don't seem to understand what it's like to be a woman in our modern world.
A female blogger named Kathy Sierra, has had her phone number and SS number released and crude rape fantasies posted about her in an effort at intimidation. Markos over at Daily Kos basically told her to "get over it".
I am reminded of a book on the 60's whose name escapes me about how the lack of sensitivity to women's issues by the activists of the left was the direct cause of the women's movement being formed in the 70's. Bright women with degrees, brains, and drive were being asked to fetch coffee, and put aside their leadership, their issues, and to make coffee and mimeographs for the fellas doing important work for the cause.
This lack of sensitivity still exists today. Jessica at Feministing, Echidne, and Ntodd among others takes Markos to task for his wrong headed thoughts. Let me repeat what Echidne said.
Ah! But women get those idiotic emails even if they don't blog. Even if they just comment on blogs. Even if they are silent, as in the recent study of Web harassment which showed that just having a female user name increased the number of malicious messages by a multiplier between six and twenty-five.
If your name is Jessica or Jane and you put yourself out on the internet talking about quilting, you are likely to get crude threatening e-mail. You don't just have to get over it. We have to recognize as a society that we have a long way to come. There may be no crying in baseball, but you still aren't allowed to bean somebody in the head.
My wife sometimes annoys me late at night. We are in bed, and she freaks out that the doors may not all be locked, so we (well usually I) have to get out of bed and make sure that everything is shut, and the house is secured. As a man, that fear of being attacked in the middle of the night by a rapist breaking through the doors just really isn't that pervasive. I get up and lock the house, because to my wife, the fear is real. She, like most women know women who have been assaulted. They don't need to get over it. We men need to get over ourselves and not pretend that our experiences are universal.
Update:Please look at the comments. The quilting example was not hyperbole in the least bit. As a man, I apologize for all the asshole guys out there. We really can be a net negative on humanity, the planet, and the universe at times.
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